Thursday, November 30, 2006

Secretaries' Day for the dinner table

My Bulgarian friends have always asked me about the meaning of Thanksgiving. Yeah, we all know the official story...pilgrims, Native Americans, turkeys and what not. But, really, what's in it for the regular American?

Well, just today, my very own prof. Grady has come up with the answer I have been looking for in years:

Thanksgiving is nothing if not a festival of side dishes, a tribute to the lesser offerings without which the main courses of our lives would have nothing to look so main next to. A sort of Secretaries' Day for the dinner table, if you will.

I perfectly agree with him.

Now, the other food-related question that I need him to answer is a well-argued response to the one question I personally have always hated the most: Are Americans really THAT fat?!

Shopping habits, revised

See, I am terrible at managing my money and until recently, I would always spend all I had without even thinking about it. Since this past summer, however, I have set a couple of rules that guide my shopping habits. And, quite surprisingly, they seem to work.

Rule No.1: Do I love-love-LOVE it?
The rule gets applied indiscriminately to any type of item I am considering purchasing. It got invented in the PUMA store in San Francisco, where I decided that I absolutely love-love-LOVED a pair of white flats that were way above my shoe-budget at the time. The rule worked perfectly. I did spend a lot, but since I love-love-LOVED the shoes, I wore them with a passion all summer and believe to have gotten their value's worth. Like I said, I apply this rule when purchasing shoes, clothes, food, candy, electronics and highly recommend you try it. You will find that making a decision whether to buy something becomes a decision about whether you absolutely love something and that's actually a fairly easy task.

Rule No.2: Do I love it X-as-much?
I use this rule when trying to decide between two items. For example, yesterday I was buying a new cell phone. I narrowed it down to two phone models of equal functionality. At first, I thought I liked the more expensive one better. It was exactly twice the price of the other one. So, in a bout of practicality (those who know me know that's definitely not a typical situation I find myself in), I asked myself: OK, so you think you like it better than the cheaper one. But do you like it twice as much? I know that logic is flawed and has nothing to do with how product prices are formed. But, honestly, who cares? I did purchase the cheaper phone and I'm happy to report I am very pleased with the decision.

Like I told some people last night, not shopping has become the new shopping for me. Or, to be precise, paying attention to the money flow in and out of my account, has become a real item of concern and care. In result, I am a little more prepared for dealing with unexpected circumstances (like, losing my fuckin' cell-phone) and I am also surrounding myself with items I actually care for.

I am becoming a very good capitalist, you see. :P

Tuesday, November 28, 2006

RSS feed address

The correct RSS feed address for this blog is:

http://bighead.waferbaby.com/atom.xml

Thanks go to Krassi & Krassi.

Monday, November 27, 2006

RSS drama never ends

If you read this blog throught an RSS reader, please let me know what is the correct address of my feed. There's the Spanish guy with the baby who someone kidnapped my blogger name and now both of us seem to use it. Blogger's support team is not being very supportive these days...Thank you!

Saturday, November 25, 2006

Gloss vs. Stick

Var just saw me putting on some lipgloss and asked with an ever so slight hint of fear and confusion in his eye:

Why are you putting nail-polish on your lips?!

After having to put up with a loud burst of laugher on my part, he was promptly introduced to the female world of unclear categories where regular lipstick is just not good enough. See, you learn something new every day!

Friday, November 24, 2006

How to raise a bookworm

I don't usually do this but I came across an awesome site today that I wanted to tell you about. It's called EHOW.com and consists of short and fun tutorials of how to do just about anything. How-to's are organized in categories such as car information, family & relationships, business & finance, and so forth.

To my greatest surprise, I've found the parenting tips section to be absolutely fascinating:

- How to explain to a child why fish swim

- How to stop children from biting
- How to teach a child to tie shoes

Go click through it and tell me what your favorite how-to's are!!!

Thursday, November 23, 2006

Blog notes

Here are some thoughts provoked by the latest BlogShop that I announced but did not really talk about last week.

First, like I already mentioned, Varzonovtsev, Peio and also Ivo have already shared their thoughts on the use of corporate and personal blogs. Their entries summarize their presentations: Var's about corporate and Peio's about personal weblogs, respectively. Unfortunately, there is no written record of Elenko and Bobby Kandov's presentation on media weblogs. The only written record of it, are my notes (spelling mistakes and coffee stains included). All three presentations and the Q&A session were pretty good, I thought. If I had to do it again, I would have picked only one type of blogs to talk about as there was simply no time to cover all three we'd chosen. Also, the forum was largely attended by IT-people representing their companies...so perhaps we should have left personal blogs out of the panel. But that's ok. Peio is always fun to listen to, so, yeah.


As the seminar is long gone and most conversations on the topic have already died out, I would like to draw some attention to three points that all of the authors implicitly agreed upon but have not really mentioned explicitly in the presentations I just referenced.

1] It is generally a good idea to know WHY you have a blog. What is its purpose? What is its goal? When I say goal, I really don't mean anything too specific. Your goal depends on your blog (corporate, media, personal). Your goal could be to hike up your sales, attract new clients, lower your client communication costs, gather an audience, stroke your ego, find your future husband, whatever.

2] It is difficult to define whether a particular blog is "successful". Traditionally, a blog's success is measured by the number of unique visitors it attracts and the number of links that lead to it. Those metrics, however, albeit not completely meaningless, are not always relevant. To measure whether a blog is successful is really an exercise in evaluating how completely it is achieving its predefined goals. 'Evaluating how completely it is achieving its predefined goals' does not relate to a straighforward technique of evaluation. However, the larger point remains that one needs to first and foremost know why a blog was created to begin with before beginning to judge how successful it is.

3] Time and timing are important factors to the development of a blog. It takes time to start it up. It takes time to keep it up. It takes time for your blog to get noticed. It takes time before you figure out what the fuck you've gotten yourself into. At the same time, you are expected to move fast, deliver stories pretty frequently, respond to reader feedback as soon as you can.

I realize that these three points are pretty obvious. However, I think it is important to keep them to the forefront for many reasons. As we go through our personal blogging routines, I think we all tend to compare ourselves to the best and brightest out there. That, sometimes, works as a motivating factor. We push ourselves to create unique content that others can relate to and that gives an amazing sense of personal fulfillment that's difficult to describe. Other times, however, it makes us give up and feel like total blogosphere failures (oh! the horror!).

As a clinically certified blog-addict, I tend to get all kinds of people excited about starting to blog. They write for a couple of weeks, enthusiastically at first, but the number of entries inevitably starts to decrease. Before you know it, what had started as this new exciting thing, turns into an awful disappointment. And that's clearly not something anyone would like experience. For that reason, I think those three little things I mentioned above are helpful to remember.

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Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Branding me, branding you

I think that BRANDING is the big thing in Sofia these days. And it's not product branding that I am talking about. It's people trying to brand and package themselves that I am thinking of.

Now, don't get me wrong. I am a huge fan of taking care of oneself and the ways others perceive you. I think that's a question of self-respect and a reflection of how much respect you have for others. Also, I am a firm believer that there is no such thing as keeping your work out of your personal life. I know for a fact that when I am involved in a project that interests me on a very gutteral, personal level, I work better and more efficiently. Therefore, I have no problem with people talking about work after 7PM or chat about their personal doing at the office.

Yet, I am mostly confused by the fact that so many people here seem to be so preoccupied with streaming a consistent version of themselves for the public to consume. I saw a lot of that in the States but it was mostly restrained to pseudo-celebrities and Hollywood types. Here, it's regular people who are spending insane amounts of time thinking about all types of appearances. Honest to god, I've never felt as self-conscious while in the States. I never felt I was being watched. Or, maybe, that was just graduate school?!

I feel that the very size of our country, not to mention the size of our city is one of the reasons why people need to be as self-aware as they are. Everybody seems to know everyone and that makes it necessary that you stay focused and alert about what you say and do, because you know that regardless of whether it's good or bad, it will get noticed sooner or later.

My other two explanations have to do with:

1] The size of the labor market
and
2] The stage of socio-economic development we find ourselves in.

I am more interested in hearing what you guys have to say about this. Have you noticed it too? You don't have to be Bulgarian to have seen it. Also, I don't think that what I am talking about is unique to Bulgaria. Maybe it's a "New Democracy" trend? Or, perhaps, a global trend? And, actually, is it necessarily bad?

Friday, November 17, 2006

Works in progress

During a corporate website presentation, an ICYGEN employee asked the following question:

Websites are supposed to be completely revamped every 3 or 4 years. Minor changes to websites should be implemented once every 3 months. How do you think your corporate identity will be affected?...

In my humble opinion, and please do correct me if I'm wrong, the above question is pretty stupid. Change your website once every 3 months?! Dude, do THAT and you will have a total of 100 visitors...A WEEK!!! The ICYGEN update rule might have been valid back in 1998 when people used to create static corporate presentation websites that never changed and then, quite understandably, just died. That, however, is clearly not the case in the era of Content Management Systems, blog-tools and the like.

Anyway. What I wanted to ask was your thoughts on the opposite phenomenon: websites that constantly change. And by change, I obviously mean changes different from adding new news-items, blog-entries, or client-profiles to your site. How do you feel you about that? How do you feel about people/corporations adding new sections or changing the structure of their website under the pre-text of 'developing their vision' or whatever.

I am aware that the most accurate answer to my question is It depends. Of course, there are different ways in which one could implement change. But, I still would like to know where you draw the line between 'work-in-progress' and simply 'never-getting-it-done'.

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Tonight...

I am so exhausted from spending a long but VERY fulfilling day at the BG Site Web Seminar that all I can do is stare at my feet and tell you that everything went very well and to urge you to go read what Peio and Ivo have said about the blog discussion.



I promise to have formed an opinion of my own by this time tomorrow. I also promise that I will have rediscovered my ability to form sentences.

Monday, November 13, 2006

Phases of a Project

I have a Sunday deadline, which, due to understandable circumstances I have chosen to interpret as a "late-Sunday-evening" deadline. See, I am working on an article for the magazine and I was all gung ho about it. I am writing about internets stuff that I deeply care about and I think that even my editor was a bit surprised by my initial enthusiasm. But then, you know...life got in the way. There were coffees to be had, and shopping to be done, and sleep to be caught up with.

Just as I am trying to figure out how to save myself from an imminent panic attack, I remember something that my friend Brooke had posted a while back:

Phases of a Project

1. Enthusiasm
2. Disillusionment
3. Panic
4. Search for the guilty
5. Punishment of the innocent
6. Praise and honor for the non-participants


So I shrug it off and tell myself that nothing out of the ordinary has happened. I probably WILL seriously panic in a couple of hours but then, inevitably,I will find something to blame for my delay. You know...my noisy neighbors...or their dog. I mean, come ON!

Friday, November 10, 2006

Ползата от блоговете

На 14 ноември от 10:00 часа в залата на хотел “Форум” (София, бул Цар Борис III №41) ще поговорим за ползата от това да имаш блог.

Поканили сме (ние==Netage.bg) следните хора, които ще споделят своя опит, свързан с поддържането на:

Георги Варзоновцев: корпоративни блогове
Еленко Еленков и Боби Кандов (a.k.a. My Personal Jesus...е, айде, преувеличих малко) от в-к Капитал: медийни блогове.
Пейо Попов, който няма нужда от представяне точно тук: лични блогове

Формата на събитието е panel discussion, т.е. участниците ще разкажат накратко (10-15 минути всеки) своя опит и мнението си относно ползата от блоговете. След това модераторът на дискусията (a.k.a. аз) и публиката ще могат да задават допълнително въпроси на панелистите.

Вероятно ще е интересно за уеб продуценти, журналисти, маркетинг хората, които търсят нови канали за промоция в интернет. Както и за всички онези от вас, които могат да си позволят лукса да ходят на някакви подобни неща посред бял работен ден.

Цялото събитие е част от уеб семинара на конкурса БГсайт (14-16 ноември, пак там).

Ако имате въпроси, питайте. Ако имате желание, анонсирайте и при вас. Колкото повече хора се появят на дискусията, толкова по-весело. Пейо ще бъде провокативен, а аз ще бъда мила и ще се опитам да държа феминистките си наблюдения под контрол. Освен това обещавам да направя всичко възможно да няма никакви PowerPoint презентации, защото ги мразя точно толкова колкото предполагам и вие.

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Като първа крадла свих горния текст от блога на Варзоновцев. Направих така че да звучи все едно аз съм го писала (разни вметвания в скобите и пр.). В цивилизования свят на това нещо му се вика нагло плагиатсво и се наказва. По някои други земи, няма нужда от конкретизация, това е нормална журналистическа практика. Аз си измивам ръцете с това, че споменавам източника на първоначалния текст, а утре цял ден ще мисля как да му се подмажа, за да бъда извинена.

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Thursday, November 09, 2006

Midterm...

The Democrats won the House.
The Senate is pretty much theirs too, still waiting on the Virginia recount.
Nancy Pelosi will be the first woman to become the Speaker of the House.
Fucking Donald Rumsfeld RESIGNED!

I might get caked for saying this, but today I am very happy and proud of the American people.

In fact, I wish I was there [a little bit].

Monday, November 06, 2006

Purple Pigs and Prezidentski Izbori

Because you have been good but also, because I need to clean my apartment and would do anything to postpone THAT, you get to hear not one but TWO stories tonight:

STORY No.1:

A couple of weeks ago I saw a pair of men's leather gloves that I thought I really liked. A few days ago, I decided to go back to the store and get the Professor an early Christmas present. It was all good until I saw the gloves again. The leather was not even close to black (i.e. the color I had thought they were). They were PURPLE. No way in hell am I buying my man purple gloves!

I must have been obviously disappointed because the sales person came by and asked if there was anything she could do to help me. I tell her, well, not really. I simply can't buy a pair of PURPLE gloves. At which point she proceeds to explain to me how the gloves are actually very nice and they are made of GENUINE leather and see how soft it is. That's when I look up at her like she's out of her mind and with all my seriousness ask: Who do you think you're fooling telling me this is genuine leather?! Have you ever seen a PURPLE PIG?!?!?!?!!? And, of course, stomp out of the store.

I tell the story to Professor and he says, babe, you know that they actually dye leather before they make shoes or clothing out of it, right?!

What??!?!!!!

I guess I could have figured it out on my own if I had thought about it. But, come on, how often does one think about this kind of stuff! Yes, thank you.

STORY No.2:

Prof. Grady and I are talking about the second round of the presidential election in Bulgaria (that was last weekend, for those of you who don't go by the Bulgarian political calander).

Professor: So, are you voting for Izbori?
Me: What?!
Professor: Who are you voting for? Izbori?
Me: Babe, what are you talking about?
Professor: I thought you said that you might need to vote for the incumbant?


This goes back and forth for quite some time, but eventually we figure out that Prof. Grady thought that Presidentski meant President and that Izbori was the name of our president. In other words, he thought he had been asking whether I would be voting for President + Name (and assumed that Izbori was our president's last name). What he was actually saying was "Are you voting for the Presidential Election."

As someone who's relatively new to the wonder of the Bulgarian language, Prof. Grady is doing pretty well. However, he already is starting to build a history of confusing nouns with adjectives. On his second day in Bulgaria, he was approached by a guy on the street. Not knowing what to say, he responded with:

Изнивете. Американски съм.


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As I finish up, I keep thinking that I should maybe go back and change the title of this entry to 'Dumb and Dumber'. Prof. Grady would play Dumb and I would definitely be Dumber.

FISHES

Since both prof. Grady and I are Pisces, this fish-series takes on all kinds of meanings in my mind. Aren't they the cutest ever?!







via sinth

Thursday, November 02, 2006

Put that thing down

I am running late for work this morning so I call a cab. I run out of the apartment. My hair is all messed up. My coat is unbuttoned. I am holding my bag in one hand, my keys and cell in the other. The click-clack of my heels wakes up the entire neighborhood. Ok, I lied about that last part. I don't go to work THAT early.

I jump into the car, spit out where I want to go and as soon as I've cought my breath I start doing my make-up. I take the little compact mirror out of my bag, open my lipgloss and begin applying. Three seconds into the procedure, my driver says:

Driver: Please put this down.
Me: ?!?!???!??!?!??!?!?!
Driver: Put the lipstick back in your bag. You are not doing your make-up in my car.


For the rest of the day I keep wondering WHAT THE FUCKIN' FUCK WAS THAT ABOUT?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!

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Wednesday, November 01, 2006

There's always a first time

Earlier today I received an email from an old friend of mine, in which, among other things, she mentioned "I don't know what this blog thing is all about, but I am definitely going to look into it". That line made me so nervous as I suspect that the first blog she ever saw was mine.

That little exchange made me think about the first blogs that I ever read and the impressions they left me with.

1. Waferbaby:
The first time I visited the site, Dan's Head Project was in full swing. He was encouraging people to take pictures of their heads and email them to him. He would then post the picture along with the name, age, and location of its owner. I had never seen anything like that before. Not only did that guy have a cool website but also, he was willing to share it with others like me. It completely blew me away. So much so, that I got in touch with him. The rest of it is history and you can read more about it in this site's sidebar.

2. Maganda:
She was talking about little things. Like little conversations she overheard on the street. Or bacon. Her life was exactly what I had hoped my own life would be when I grew up. Small but meaninful. No riches. No glory. No famous people in my address book. But beautiful and very peaceful. I still read her site religiously.

3. Dooce:
My first reading of her site was accompanied by LOUD laughter and lots and lots and lots of giggles. It provoked several text-messages and a solemn vow to go to California...SOME DAY, SOMEHOW. The woman was FUNNY! At the same time, there was a purpose to her writing and actual reasoning behind her sarcasm. It has been a total riot to continue reading her all these years.

Do you remember the first three blogs you came around? What were your first impressions? Do you still read them?

Let me know. If nothing, I think we all need a break from the previous conversation anyway.